Jane Austen 
Pride and Prejudice 

When we think we understand others, how many misunderstandings and misunderstandings of mine are hidden behind that understanding. That we know him or her
Believe it, but maybe we are mistaken for him or her for the fantasy in my head created by my misreading. British writer Jane Austin
‘Pride and Prejudice’ (1813) is a novel that sharply captures the self-centered thinking behind the “understanding” of such people.