Yun Muxin 
Replace Anger with Competition 

Many people often complain, fret and cry loudly that life is so unfair to themselves when they are at the bottom of their lives. They are addicted to it for a long time and are surrounded by tears and helpless emotions all day long. In fact, if you think about it carefully, what’s the use of complaining and torturing yourself? You could only increase your pain and make yourself fall deeper and worse! Actually, everyone wants to be successful and respected by others, but sometimes you will encounter setbacks, ridicule and exclusion from others. This is life! Life requires you to face your own misfortunes and disappointments, to rise up when your life is low, to find happiness when you are in pain, to be calm when you are angry, to give up when you are obsessed, and to learn to forget when you are frustrated! The so-called competition is replacing anger! There are so many things in life that we don’t care about. Fairness, perfection, humiliation, worry, loss … In the face of all this, it is your persistence that makes you lose the happiness and happiness that life should have. It is a kind of wisdom and detachment to learn to be indifferent, forget, give up, forget, and replace anger with competition.