Kirsten Ahlburg 
Not Tonight, Darling! When Sexual Desire Disappears 

Not Tonight, Darling! is a book about women whose sexual desire has disappeared completely or in part — a problem affecting ever more people.The book goes through the various causes, in couplehood or the woman’s own life, of the problem, such as stress, being pressed for time, pregnancy and childbirth, her role as a mother, her relationship to her own body, fear and pain, a lack of attention and intimacy, previous physical or mental abuse, the partners’ different needs.A book for both women and couples, it helps them find the heart of the problem, and offers them the chance of dealing with it by means of hands-on exercises.-